I once caught a line from a movie that really stuck with me: “It’s one of the benefits of bad luck. It teaches you to pivot.” There’s definitely some truth there. Life can throw us off track, and sometimes it feels like it does so over and over again. As a middle-aged Indian gay man,…
Tag: queer minds
Frozen Gaze
I may look cold as ice,When I see in them nothing nice.With a gaze that could freeze,And a heart that’s hard to please. You may find me rude,But on good days, I’m the next-door dude.A familiar face with hidden grace,Waiting for a smile to light up this space. Behind the frost, there’s warmth untold,A story…
The Limit of Humanity: A Reflection
In the crazy world of advertising, things move at lightning speed. We’re all in a race against time, chasing quick turnarounds, instant results, and immediate satisfaction. It’s like we’re living in fast-forward mode, trying to get everything done in a flash. But in this rush, how often do we lose our cool when things don’t…
I Am Your Gay Best Friend
Do you even realise how lucky you are? Like, seriously. Having a Gay Best Friend (GBF) is like winning the friendship lottery. It’s all glitter, sass, and a dash of emotional support you never knew you needed. First things first, I’m a multitasking wizard. One minute, I’m giving you life-changing advice while I’m sober, and…
Born Free Yet Caged by the Society
Hey there, Awesome folks! I’m Ankur, a middle-aged guy from New Delhi. My life is all about making films, travelling, taking photos, telling stories, and irritating my partner. But beyond the cool pictures and exciting tales, there’s a deeper story—the journey of being gay in India. Today, I want to share a bit of that…
Happy Father’s Day!
Father’s Day brings on a whole jumble of feelings, each one a real mixed bag. My old man and I’ve had quite an unconventional relationship. It’s been a real rollercoaster ride – nothing like your typical father-son story. When I was a kid, my dad was my hero, someone I looked up to like he…
The Unbuttoned Shirt
There’s something irresistibly captivating about a man with an unbuttoned shirt. The way the fabric drapes casually, teasing me with glimpses of what lies beneath, ignites a primal fire within me. I vividly recall a scorching summer day when the air clung to my skin and the city simmered in lazy heat. That’s when I…
Shackled Closet
Hey there, the lovely person reading this, I really need to get something off my chest today. It’s a big deal for me, as I have my own biases, and I think a lot of people in the LGBTQ+ community can relate. I’ve been doing some serious thinking about what it’s like to be stuck…
Being Queer in the Corporate Jungle: Challenges and Thriving Tips
Navigating the corporate world as a Queer person isn’t easy. Challenges like stereotypes and microaggressions exist, but self-acceptance and advocacy can lead to thriving and change.
Unapologetically Queer: Prioritising Mental Health in 2024
Hey there, beautiful people! Let’s prioritise our mental health in 2024, especially in the LGBTQ+ community. Embrace self-care, find support, and celebrate your wins. Cheers to a fabulous year!
ANKUR MONDAL 