Embracing Bad Luck: The Art of Pivoting

I once caught a line from a movie that really stuck with me: “It’s one of the benefits of bad luck. It teaches you to pivot.” There’s definitely some truth there. Life can throw us off track, and sometimes it feels like it does so over and over again. As a middle-aged Indian gay man,…

मुस्कान

सुनो, मुझे हँसना सिखा दो।कैसी होती है मुस्कान, बस वो बता दो। बचपन में खिलखिलाते, कुछ आवाज़ें गुम गईं,जवानी के ठहाके, लोगों के कानों में चुभ गईं। किसी बात पे खुश हुए और काम बिगड़ गया,तो डर से उनपे भी खुश होना छोड़ दिया। अब तस्वीरें खिचवाना अजीब लगता है,खुद का चेहरा भी अजनबी सा…

Frozen Gaze

I may look cold as ice,When I see in them nothing nice.With a gaze that could freeze,And a heart that’s hard to please. You may find me rude,But on good days, I’m the next-door dude.A familiar face with hidden grace,Waiting for a smile to light up this space. Behind the frost, there’s warmth untold,A story…

Shackled Closet

Hey there, the lovely person reading this, I really need to get something off my chest today. It’s a big deal for me, as I have my own biases, and I think a lot of people in the LGBTQ+ community can relate. I’ve been doing some serious thinking about what it’s like to be stuck…

Flawsome: Embracing Imperfection in the Era of Social Media

In today’s social media world, the pandemic has reshaped views on health and fitness, creating a divide between those who easily embody fitness and those struggling. While motivation is key, it’s important to consider individual hurdles and promote body positivity. Embracing our true selves, regardless of societal standards, brings real happiness.

Invisible Burdens: Mental Health and Indian Gay Men

Hey there, my friends! It’s that time of year again: World Mental Health Day. This year, let’s shed light on a subject that often remains in the shadows: the mental health challenges faced by gay men in India. Life has its ups and downs for all of us, but for gay men in India, it…

Confessions of an Ambivert: The Social Chameleon

Hello there, and welcome to the fascinating world of ambiverts – the social chameleons of the personality spectrum! If you’ve ever been curious about what it’s like to be neither a complete extrovert nor a complete introvert, then you’re in for a treat. Ambiverts are like the perfect party mix – a smooth blend of…