Embracing Bad Luck: The Art of Pivoting

I once caught a line from a movie that really stuck with me: “It’s one of the benefits of bad luck. It teaches you to pivot.” There’s definitely some truth there. Life can throw us off track, and sometimes it feels like it does so over and over again. As a middle-aged Indian gay man,…

मुस्कान

सुनो, मुझे हँसना सिखा दो।कैसी होती है मुस्कान, बस वो बता दो। बचपन में खिलखिलाते, कुछ आवाज़ें गुम गईं,जवानी के ठहाके, लोगों के कानों में चुभ गईं। किसी बात पे खुश हुए और काम बिगड़ गया,तो डर से उनपे भी खुश होना छोड़ दिया। अब तस्वीरें खिचवाना अजीब लगता है,खुद का चेहरा भी अजनबी सा…

दिल की कचोट

कभी-कभी बहुत रोना आता है,पर आँसू नहीं आते।एक कचोट सी है दिल में,पर बयान नहीं किये जाते। है दुनिया खुशनुमा,पर मैं खुश नहीं।हूँ भीड़ में भी तन्हा,पर उसमें भी गम नहीं। अकेलेपन में अक्सर,क्षण भर की ख़ुशी पा जाता,पर मेरी परछाई को भी,मेरा साथ रास नहीं आता। मन की चाहत से हूँ मैं अनजान,बस मिल…

Frozen Gaze

I may look cold as ice,When I see in them nothing nice.With a gaze that could freeze,And a heart that’s hard to please. You may find me rude,But on good days, I’m the next-door dude.A familiar face with hidden grace,Waiting for a smile to light up this space. Behind the frost, there’s warmth untold,A story…

The Limit of Humanity: A Reflection

In the crazy world of advertising, things move at lightning speed. We’re all in a race against time, chasing quick turnarounds, instant results, and immediate satisfaction. It’s like we’re living in fast-forward mode, trying to get everything done in a flash. But in this rush, how often do we lose our cool when things don’t…

Choosing the Right Clients: An Agency Producer’s Perspective

As someone who has worked as an agency producer for almost two decades in the advertising industry, I have had the opportunity to navigate through a wide spectrum of experiences. One question that constantly arises, particularly in today’s AI-driven world, is who should we prioritise? Should we prioritise a client with substantial brand value and…

I Am Your Gay Best Friend

Do you even realise how lucky you are? Like, seriously. Having a Gay Best Friend (GBF) is like winning the friendship lottery. It’s all glitter, sass, and a dash of emotional support you never knew you needed. First things first, I’m a multitasking wizard. One minute, I’m giving you life-changing advice while I’m sober, and…

Born Free Yet Caged by the Society

Hey there, Awesome folks! I’m Ankur, a middle-aged guy from New Delhi. My life is all about making films, travelling, taking photos, telling stories, and irritating my partner. But beyond the cool pictures and exciting tales, there’s a deeper story—the journey of being gay in India. Today, I want to share a bit of that…

Happy Father’s Day!

Father’s Day brings on a whole jumble of feelings, each one a real mixed bag. My old man and I’ve had quite an unconventional relationship. It’s been a real rollercoaster ride – nothing like your typical father-son story. When I was a kid, my dad was my hero, someone I looked up to like he…

The Unbuttoned Shirt

There’s something irresistibly captivating about a man with an unbuttoned shirt. The way the fabric drapes casually, teasing me with glimpses of what lies beneath, ignites a primal fire within me. I vividly recall a scorching summer day when the air clung to my skin and the city simmered in lazy heat. That’s when I…